H.O.P.E

hello everybody! thanks for dropping by..today, let's talk about hope. what's "hope" actually? hope is to desire with expectation of obtainment. expectation..

sometimes what we are hoping for will come to reality..sometimes it's not..remember: we can't get all that we want in life. but believe it or not, hope is important and essential in life. why? because it will give us strength to continue living and facing the challenges. don't believe me? just see the examples below ::::

1. mum: if you get straight a's in your exam, i'll buy you a new handphone..
son: yeah..i'll try my best!
note :: mum gives hope to her son

2. boy : we'll get married 5 years from now..just wait for me..if Allah's will,
you'll be mind..
girl: InsyaAllah..we can just pray for the best now..
note:: boy gives hope to the girl

3. teacher : the question will not be difficult to answer if you all had do enough
preparation..believe in yourself!
pupil : yes, teacher...
note :: teacher gives hope to the pupil

4. boss : if you show improvement in your work, i'll increase your salary..
worker : i'll try my best, sir.
note :: boss gives hope to the worker

and many, many more situations..

see? hope plays an important role in one's life. but most of the time, when the hope do not come into reality when the time comes, we'll certainly be angry, sad and dissapointed, especially to the person who gives us hope. we'll say something like this :

" if you can't do it, why you say you can? why you promised?"

hmm..it's true that things happened is beyond of our control..it's in Allah's hand. but it's better if you don't simply give others hope..think first..will you able to bring it to reality? if not, don't give hope to others. you'll only hurts the person..prevention is better than cure, right?

for those who hoped, but then it don't come to reality, don't be too disappointed. when one door closed, another opens. everything happens for a reason. maybe it's not good for you, that's why you can't get it. learn from the mistake, and be a more mature person. accept and move on..

T o "LeT Go"..

in life, there's something that we must let go for we cannot get all the things we want in life. majority of the people, including me, encounters some difficulties in letting go something, for we all have feelings.we must let go our frustration, anger and bitterness, stress, our past relationship and etc.let go, and move on, change our life to a better one..

there's no use to keep chasing something or someone which are not for us..it may take some time to let go..but believe me, once you have succeed in letting go, you'll feel very3 relief and be a new better person..


To "let go" does not mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands, but in God's.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another. It's to make the most possible out of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being, as we all are.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold, fuss, or argue; but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to live for today and grow for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and to love more.
(adapted from internet)


This is to remind you and myself that each one of us has things in our life beyond our control – and often the healthy thing is to let go... in the proper way.

the L.O.S.E.R..

err..the topic is some kind of pathetic isn’t it? today i want to talk about THE L.O.S.E.R. we usually define loser as someone who did not manage to be a winner in something. that’s a general definition. we can also call people below as loser :::::

1. someone who did not try again after a failure or in other words, they have lost their heart. they have lost their hope and did not want to try again.

2. someone who do not have enough bravery to declare their feelings, and just stand there and prefer watching then do something.

3. someone who did not want to admit their mistake and keep blaming others.

4. someone who do not want to help others, especially in study for they are afraid that their knowledge will be lost.

5. someone who quit doing things for they have feeling that they will not succeed, although the journey is not over yet.

why suddenly i talk about this loser? it’s because now i feel like a loser. i’m a high-expectation person, perfectionist and that really makes me stressful sometimes or now, everytime. if i feel like i can’t get what i want, i will stop doing the thing. for me, it’s a waste of time if i keep chasing what i can’t get. and now, i’m doing that. stop chasing it. stop doing it. stop dreaming it. even my heart is reluctant to do it, i think i’ve no choice. i don’t want to get hurt and sad in the future. but then i realized, it’s not a correct way to face challenges. when we run from challenges, the challenges will only become bigger and bigger and we finally are ready to face the challenges, the challenges are now bigger than it should be.

so now, i think that i can see it clearer..i dare to face the challenges and try to enjoy every moment in my life and appreciate people around me..for maybe that’s the last time we talk with them, maybe that’s the last time we see them..and maybe that’s the last time we can do things that we love..we don’t know what will happen in the future..whatever happens, happens..we can’t changed it..don’t keep regretting something that you didn’t get, for at one time, it is exactly what you wanted..everything happens for a reason..so.. starting from now, let’s stop being a NEGATIVE THINKER and LOSER, let’s be a POSITIVE THINKER and strive to be a WINNER!